Learn To Read Eyes And Discover What Women Are Thinking

Why do you think law enforcement trains their top detectives and interrogators in how to read eyes? That's right, because it works - better than lie detectors, even. The gift of reading female body language will help you a ton!

Your eyes are the window to your soul. You can't hide anything if someone you are around knows how to extract certain signs that your eyes involuntarily give off. If you want to read female body language properly, learn to read eyes .

So, we've established that when it comes to reading female body language the eyes are the most important, now what?

I'm going to give you some quick give-aways that will tip you off on whether or not a woman finds you attractive. These are well documented and proven signs and have worked wonders with my love life. After mastering these following techniques, I was never rejected again and learning these tips on how to read eyes gave me a lot of confidence in approaching women..

If you know how to use it properly, reading the eyes is just as reassuring as having a woman tell you that she has a crush on you.

Okay, I'm rambling. Time to get to business.


Here we go:

Suppose you're at a club, and a hot woman walks past you. What do you do? Well, if she has a pretty face and you're interested in what else she has, you look her up and down. No? If you don't believe you do you have to become more self aware because every woman is noticing.

That same can be reversed. Men are known as visual creatures. We base a lot of who we approach on what the woman looks like. Women are no different but their signals are. This is why you must learn how to read eyes and body language if you're looking to seduce them.

I have read a lot of literature about seduction and almost every one of them stress how visually unimpressed women are when it comes to men. This is a bald faced lie, even though it is not the determining factor in whether you get a hot chick or not.

Women do the vertical scan as often as men do, we just don't notice it. Why? The more I thought about it, the more I realized that we were too busy checking them out than looking to read eyes.

Next time you're at a social event, look at all the women's eyes, especially when you first arrive. If they look at your face and quickly turn away, sorry but they aren't interested in what else you have. This is when you pour on the seduction tips you've learned and distract her from all your shortcomings.

If she looks at your face and then quickly scans your body, you're in! The only thing you can do at this point is mess it up by using techniques that you learned from your buddies. See how learning how to read eyes and female body language could save you from a potentially embarrassing approach?

When a woman initially finds you attractive, she will give you a chance. A chance to prove that your looks are the least you could offer them.

Catching a woman check you it is easy to miss and sometimes deceiving. She could be looking down at your ugly shoes or your wrinkled pants. Who knows? What I can tell you is that 99% of the time, when she's scanning your body, she's impressed.

If you do, however, miss the vertical scan, don't worry. Women do something else when they are attracted to a guy that is just as telling. What I am talking about, of course, is the "look away."

Women have a tendency to look away immediately after you make eye contact with them if they like you. A lot of the time they'll look away and then turn their attention back to you - seeing if you're still watching.

It's very important at this stage to continue eye contact and give her a little smile telling her that you like her too. If she smiles back, BINGO! That is your cue and you best be hoping that the tips you've learned on the Internet to seduce her work.

Now, you've eliminated the uncertainty that you fear so much with tell tale signs that she is interested in you by knowing one tip on how to read eyes effectively, but is there anything else? Of course there is!

This following technique is one that no woman can escape. It is part of our physiology as humans and if read properly will give you the upper hand with the confidence and certainty you need to seduce her.

When a human sees something they find "attractive", their pupils will dilate. It's a very difficult science to understand, but let me break it down for you in simple terms. Our pupils will dilate as an unconscious response so that they can "take in" as much of what they're looking at. The more a girl's pupil's are dilated, the more chance they are really into you. When learning how to read eyes, this is probably the most difficult because there are various factors that contribute to dilation that you should be aware of.

There are some very important things to know before taking her humungous pupils as a sign of attraction. First, you must realize that when a woman is drunk or on drugs, her pupils will dilate. Since most social gatherings involve alcohol, the more likely the women you're talking to have had a couple of drinks. If this is the case, don't take the dilated pupils as a sign that she digs you. She's probably drunk...and that's not a bad thing at all! But if you read eyes wrong, this tip could find you in a lot of trouble.

Joseph Matthew's, creator of The Art of Approaching, concentrates a large part of his book on eye contact and reading female body language . It is the best part of his course and I know his teachings on the subject will help you as much as it helped me.


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Look At Me, Damn It!
For a while now I've been wondering why some women always make eye contact and hold it longer than others, and in most cases, the women who fail to maintain eye contact are the best looking.

Each woman is unique, so their reasons for not maintaining eye contact could be any of a variety of things. However, after a lot of thought and research I've found out why these "dimes" or perfect 10's tend to make eye contact much less than other women, making it very difficult to read eyes.

Read on and be enlightened.


Like I said before... they do this for a variety of reasons, but a few shine through the rest. The majority of these babes will fail to maintain eye contact because: they are insecure, they are stuck up, or they lack social interaction. Let go into these three in detail...

You may be thinking to yourself "How the hell could a woman that looks that good be insecure?", and it's quite simple. You would be surprised how many really hot women are insecure, and they are because of the same reason you would think that they would not be... they know that they look good.

This puts a great deal of pressure on them, and very small flaws in their appearance that would barely bother an average person (pimples, bad hair days, broken nails, etc.) make them feel like it's the end of the world. This type of mentality constantly attacks their self confidence, which in turn makes them afraid to maintain eye contact in order to not draw any attention to these "flaws".

Now lets high-tail it over to the complete opposite of the drawing board and take a look at the infamous ice queens.

These women who are "stuck up" are that way for the same reason that the others are insecure... they know that they look good. The reason why they tend to go to one extreme or the other... remains a mystery. I'm not exactly sure why some turn out to be stuck up while other do not... let's just blame that on genetics :) However, I do know that these snobby women stay that way because of their daily dose of confidence "boosters", which come in the form of men staring at them or compliments that they receive on their looks.

The good news is that these women almost always drop the "ice queen" act if you get up the balls to approach them, as they will be very surprised that you did so, and that brings us to our last category of women because ALL of these women fit that bill also...

Almost all of these "stuck up" women lack social interaction, because they scare off most of the men who would approach them if they didn't think that they would be rejected. I'm not talking about social interaction in general, like simply talking to people, I'm saying that they are rarely "hit on" in the PROPER manner.

99% of the time that these women are hit on is by the only type of men that have the balls to do so, which are known as the "male pigs". These men will hang out the window of their car and shout something like "Woooohoooo, shake that ass baby!" or "Damn, your fine!". I don't fully understand why they do this... maybe they think that they are being cool? That's another unsolved mystery, let's just blame that on genetics also :)

These women only get hit on in a manner such as that, which makes them believe that *almost* all men are like that, and the truth is... they are right. That is the same reason why us players are some of the only guys who have the ability to date women like these, and on that note I would like to thank all of the "male pigs" out there for making my job so much easier :)

When you approach these women using the proper methods described in my book, they will be very happy that you did so because this rarely happens to them, and once you learn to play your cards right you will be able to pick them up with ease. I can show you not only how to read eyes, I can show you how to get them to look at you in the first place!

I'm not saying that you will be able to pick up every hot woman that you approach, or read eyes like an expert on all women, there are still some that think that they are too good for anyone who isn't a model with over 10 million in the bank... those women can have fun trying to find a man like that, I wish them good luck in their search. Just remember that things only happen when you make them happen, so suck it up and initiate the conversation, or it'll never take place.

Take my advice and soon you'll be picking up and dropping more dimes than the sprint lady! And you'll learn how to read eyes without looking like a creep.