Sunday, March 8, 2009

The Real Road to Getting More Dates

Here's a refreshing thought. Maybe it's time to stop worrying so much about what to wear, where to eat, and when to schedule that blow-dry. Instead, try focusing on the important things we all tend to overlook, like getting involved, getting active, and getting busy. Most of our Foxy ideas are gentler on your wallet than a new getup and will help you feel much more confident and content. And who wouldn't want to date someone like that? Bingo!

Be A Joiner
Surf around on sites like Meetup.com, a clever website that hooks you up with all kinds of groups in your area -- from vegan and very liberal, to eco-adventurers, readers, writers, crafters, and more.

Scribble to Yourself
Keep a journal. It's one of the simplest ways to liberate your mind, explore ideas, sketch, and scribble anything you want from memories, hopes and dreams, or just amusing things that make you laugh. Get writing and you'll feel more inspired. We love this adorable journals from Cocoa Crayon -- just looking at them makes us smile!

Pimp Your Pad
Updating the look of your home look can positively impact your attitude big time. It doesn't matter if you live in a tiny studio or a sprawling suburban house, and it doesn't have to cost a lot of money. Check out UrbanOutfitters.com and CB2 for wallet friendly, stylized accents that will add major pop.

Salute The Sun
Try kicking your day off with a few salutations and downward dogs. Doing a few invigorating yoga moves in the morning is a smart way to start your day. Your body feels more limber, your mind more relaxed, and your soul less stressed. You can find poses online, in books, or videos. If your budget allows, try a local class. And beginners, don't get discouraged! Look at it like a deep stretch. Plus, you never know who'll be twisting their torso right next to you.

Get Riding
Pedaling to the park or even around the block a few times makes you feel like a kid again, especially with all that wind blowing through your hair! And it's so much better for the environment too. Get an old-fashioned handlebar basket and you can even do some light errands, all from your rockin' two-wheeler. Woo hoo!

Plant A Seed
Whether it's a small box filled with herbs like basil and rosemary or a full-blown backyard vegetable patch, planting a garden is surprisingly fulfilling. Getting your hands dirty is a really good time, and it's ego-boosting to actually make something grow. Best of all, it can be delicious when you get to enjoy the fruits of your hard earned labor. Plus, it saves you a few bucks at the supermarket!

Boogie Down
Dance, shake your groove thing, make some mack daddy moves... every night! Do it by yourself or with friends. Dancing gets rid of all those pangs of stress that needle you throughout the day. Pick whatever music you like, blast it, and just rock your heart out. We prefer to do it alone because then our inhibitions really let loose.

Read Read Read
Hit your local library and load up on goodies -- novels, mysteries, histories, bios, anything. It's free, it's entertaining, and if it's good enough, it will make you excited to get back to your place every night. Plus it gives you something to chitty chat about when you bump into a new cutie at the coffee shop.

Give Give Give
Get involved in a local charity. All you have to give is your time. Whether you're more comfortable stuffing envelopes or frolicking with abandoned dogs, there are dozens of organizations, efforts, and animals who can use your help. You'll feel so good about yourself, you'll be unstoppable!

Host A Hang-Out
Once a month, throw a movie night with friends at your place. Pick a flick, ask everyone to bring a bag of munchies and let the games begin. Hosting a regular get-together is an easy and entertaining way to stay socially active and not depend on others to create the fun for you.

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